i've just been checking out Frank's latest rants. and to be quite honest i'm rather blown away by the list in his latest entry. have a look at:

http://www.frankspace.com/articles/relationshiplessons.html

don't know how to do a direct link thingy, so just copy and paste it into the address bar i guess... (why am i writing that? no doubt you lot know your way round a computer a lot better than i do! wouldn't be too hard)
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